Not My Problem

Reviews

L. H.

I loved her development through the book, as she learned that it’s okay to ask for help and rely on others. However, that is all about to change when she is roped into helping Meabh and quickly becomes the one that everyone comes to when they need a favour. Not My Problem is full of authentic characters and relationships and explores real world problems with sensitivity and nuance.

sappho's library

This book is not always easy to read as it tackles difficult themes but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. The humour, romance and complex feelings are all expertly written to create relatable characters with an emphasis on the power of human connection. They’re both snarky and stubborn but in entirely different ways and I loved watching as they softened around each other, letting down their walls as they grew closer. It is no secret that I love The Falling in Love Montage.

Soph

Because the impact TFILM had on me and the personal meaning it took on is inseparable from my opinion of it and Not My Problem simply didn’t have this same impact. Aideen’s use of wit and sarcasm to deflect from her problems was deeply relatable and I adored her sense of humour. I also loved the lesbian representation. The use of the label ‘lesbian’ on page was as affirming as ever and I loved some of the discussions surround sexuality, particularly when Aideen and Maebh end up having to change together.

This is not just because of the book itself, but the impact it had on me. Ciara Smyth has a real talent for writing characters that can be unlikeable and prickly to those around them, while allowing the reader to completely understand and sympathise with them. Our protagonist Aideen is wickedly funny, smarter than she gives herself credit for and a really good person.

Seeing Saoirse and Ruby as these lesbians who were confident and comfortable in their identity really helped me begin the journey towards being as comfortable with my own sexuality. From the first page I knew my fears that it wouldn’t live up to The Falling in Love Montage or my (extremely high) expectations were pointless. Ciara Smyth puts such fantastic representation in her stories that immediately makes me want to pick them up plus her writing style is absolutely incredible! I also loved Kavi and the himbo / lesbian solidarity between him and Aideen.